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Louise

by Louise C on 2004 Dec 20 - 14:19 | reply to this comment
Asserting Dominance Physically Forcefully
Your post was interesting and I liked some of the things you said, but I'd be terrified if my husband slapped the wall by my head. What I like, (I think) is a show of force. By that I mean he does those things that you describe, but doesn't HURT me. I like the idea of being physically taken in hand by his sheer brute (not brutal) strength, and taken OTK forcibly. However, he is not one to do that very often. His take on it is that I'm the one who asked for this, and when it's that time, it will be in HIS WAY, the position HE decides, the number of smacks HE wants to give. In other words, I gave him the idea, the knowledge of what I like, but he doesn't want me topping from the bottom.

However, for an inexperienced man in the art of D/s, sometimes they need to be guided in how these things are carried out, and what their partner needs. I need the scolding, the lecture, making me feel sorry before it even starts, and then the spanking itself does not need to be that severe. I'm not out for more than a bright pink glow. ~smiles~

nightangel

by Nightangel on 2005 May 9 - 01:15 | reply to this comment
Up against the wall
I've always enjoyed rough kisses with a woman pinned against a wall. It's a power trip, a playful one, not violent or angry. The woman squirms and resists, the man wraps her hair around his fist and forces his knee between her legs to hold her, then takes a kiss from her. Good foreplay.

Much more fun than punching a wall.