"Of course when I wrote that no one was perfect and we’ve all made mistakes, I wasn’t thinking of the full spectrum of possible pasts. So to answer your other scenarios described – the rapist. No I could not be with a rapist. Firstly rape is a crime which violates another person, and often relishes in that violation. It is violence unto a woman and anyone who has done this probably has extreme misogyny and an array of issues with himself and women. I want no part of that, and most likely, said rapist and I wouldn’t be running in the same social circles. " Well, I don't want that to come off the wrong way in any way, I think such a thing is terrible and all the things you said,mysogonist etc, but I used that as an example that to show that any and everyone can/does/will possibly hold something against someone for whatever reason. So like I said, for me, it could/would depend on alot. I've acutally been corresponding with someone online, and after a discussion with her and some things she told, I'm having some second thoughts. I will tell you if you'd like to know. I won't give out names, I wouldn't do that, but if you want to know.