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Are Feminists Finally Noticing That the Men Have Left the Building?
I only became 99.9% certain she liked me yesterday, she wore heavy red lipstick, which I have never seen or remember her do before. Today was simply too late. My anxieties got the better of me yesterday I think she picked up on that. Granted I should have spoken to her sooner however my shift times at work have been erratic the last 4 weeks.
I know you are huge on the guy approaching the girl first Midori, but if she really liked me she should have sat right next to me or approached me with a simple hi. If I have nothing to lose saying hi to her, surely she has nothing to lose herself?
There is no way known this girl didn’t know I was extremely shy. She might be shy herself, but she is more aggressive than me. I couldn’t know she was going on leave, she had far less to lose than me today or even yesterday with an approach. It’s all well and good to say the man should protect the woman’s ego but not every man can simply shake off a rejection or be aggressive enough to initiate the first contact.
With every rejection I get, not only does my ego go further down but so does the little confidence I have left. I simply can not approach a woman unless I am almost 100% certain she likes me. After what happened today and with every day that will no doubt come without seeing her, I will continue to be less sure if she ever liked me in the first place.
So now I am kicking myself for not approaching her. I feel bad for her if she is going on holiday feeling unhappy because of my actions.
I really hope I get to see her again and find out one way or another if she likes me.
Blue Says:
January 21st, 2012 at 11:41 pm
hi MidoriLei !
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Are Feminists Finally Noticing That the Men Have Left the Building?
I only became 99.9% certain she liked me yesterday, she wore heavy red lipstick, which I have never seen or remember her do before. Today was simply too late. My anxieties got the better of me yesterday I think she picked up on that. Granted I should have spoken to her sooner however my shift times at work have been erratic the last 4 weeks.
I know you are huge on the guy approaching the girl first Midori, but if she really liked me she should have sat right next to me or approached me with a simple hi. If I have nothing to lose saying hi to her, surely she has nothing to lose herself?
There is no way known this girl didn’t know I was extremely shy. She might be shy herself, but she is more aggressive than me. I couldn’t know she was going on leave, she had far less to lose than me today or even yesterday with an approach. It’s all well and good to say the man should protect the woman’s ego but not every man can simply shake off a rejection or be aggressive enough to initiate the first contact.
With every rejection I get, not only does my ego go further down but so does the little confidence I have left. I simply can not approach a woman unless I am almost 100% certain she likes me. After what happened today and with every day that will no doubt come without seeing her, I will continue to be less sure if she ever liked me in the first place.
So now I am kicking myself for not approaching her. I feel bad for her if she is going on holiday feeling unhappy because of my actions.
I really hope I get to see her again and find out one way or another if she likes me.
Blue Says:
January 21st, 2012 at 11:41 pm
hi MidoriLei !