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Who we find attractive is shaped to some extent by the society we live in. Until the 1960s inter racial relationships in many parts of the United States were not only condemned but they would’ve been nearly impossible because of the social, economic and employment consequences of maintaining a relationship. It would’ve been a bit hard going out with someone if you have to sit on seperate park benches, use seperate toilet facilities, sit at opposite ends of the bus and can’t eat in the same restaurants or go to the same drive-ins. The legal segregation may have ended but the attitudes that allowed it to survive for so long largely haven’t. I’m not saying that Americans are racist, I’m simply saying that American attitudes towards inter-racial relationships are still heavily influenced by segregation. Even in this day in age it is extraordinarily rare to see an American programme where a relationship between a black person and a white person is portrayed.

In New Zealand we never had legal segregation. Thus, while inter-racial relationships might’ve been frowned upon in certain circles, it never had serious social, economic or employment consequences for those who were in such relationships or the off-spring of such relationships. For that reason, inter-racial relationships are so common here that it is the exception rather than the rule that ethnicity would be considered when considering a partner either consciously or subconsciously for a relationship.

Anyone who claims that social conditioning doesn’t affect who they go out with to some extent is an idiot and a liar. Part of that social conditioning includes which ethnic groups to go out with.